Choose The Relationship!

choose the relationship

​What is this obsession we have with being “right”? What is every argument about?  Proving that the other is wrong and that I’m… right?! Here´s a thought:  When you are happy with yourself you do not have the need to be right so much of the time… What do you think?  

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We Train People How To Treat Us

We train people how to treat us

Take me for example…  I learned early on in life that a successful survival strategy was to please my parents. So, later in life I continued to be a people-pleaser and trained people that I would be there for them – which then became our un-written, un-spoken un-wholesome contract. Then, when something terrible happened to me and I […]

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Is Your Future In The Past?

Is your future in the past

“You become one parent and marry the other one.” I really fought this one for a while and, with deeper self reflection, I saw how the truth in it. Think about it for a moment – what of your mom or dad do you see in yourself? Now, what of your more or dad do you see […]

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7 Success Steps For Changing Careers That Actually Work!

Success Steps for Changing Careers

Seriously thinking about changing careers…but afraid of doing what it takes to make it happen? I know just how daunting changing careers can seem – particularly if you´re not really sure how or where to begin. And yet… It´s also a move that has the potential to bring greater joy, more fulfillment, and an increased sense of satisfaction […]

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